I am sorry for your loss and sad that I am unable to attend her service, but would like to thank you for sharing your mother with many people you will never meet. Since I am not sure if the facebook message made it through, I am also sending these fond memories of your mother to your email address.
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Your mother was a great inspiration to many of us who were fortunate enough to have her in classes. Besides the instruction she imparted regarding the Educational Administration, she also offered pearls of wisdom for life, a couple of which that have strengthened my resolve and placed renewed hope in my future.
Pearl #1.
"Don't think of your dissertation as the last thing you will write. (Get it done) and move on to more projects." (She actually said "throw up on it")
This helped remove my paralyzing fear of failure when things were not going perfectly. My mind could let go, step back and look at imperfections, refine them, and even create an entirely new way of looking at a problem. If that didn't work, then I could move on to something more.
Pearl #2.
"Always save back enough money in case you have to go without pay. You may be asked to do something that you feel you cannot do with a clear conscience. You don't want the fear of losing your job causing you to give into something you feel is wrong."
In a day and age when jobs are hard to come by, this can become a real threat to a person's resolve to do what they think is right. Your mother's comment reminded me that all jobs, including education, have the potential for a moment of moral battle. I can thankfully say that I have not caved in and continued to stand up for what I feel is right and in the best interest of my students' education.
Dr. Carla Frost Ed.D. 2008